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How can I spice up my phone sex with my boyfriend?
We have been doing long distance for a while now, and have talked to each other on the phone, and web cam to get each other going. but it gets old. and its also hard to initiate it. we have done stories, games ex. is there any thing you suggest?
ps obviously we talk about other things for hmmm 2-3 hours before.
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#3 written by csv_king 8 months ago
Honey, you can only jam so much pleasure through a phone line.
Like you said, ‘it gets old’ There’s nothing more you can do, plain and simple. If you both need more, then a l/d relationship is not the way to go.
If you 2 are too far apart to get together often, then you have a tough decision to make. Sorry this wasnt what you wanted to hear.
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#5 written by ramashka_ramesh 8 months ago
here are my tips:
* Let him take the lead. Since he suggested phone sex, he’s probably thought about it quite a bit already. So let him start things off. Tell him you want to go slowly, and I’m sure he’ll be happy to, well, warm you up.
* Respond to what he’s saying. As he talks to you, encourage him since he’s probably a little nervous, too! You can say, “Mmmmmm….” and “I would love that….” and “Ohhhh, that sounds good….”
* Tell him what you’d do if he were with you. When it’s your turn to talk, you can start off really slowly. “If you were here, I’d lead you into my bedroom. Then we’d sit down on my bed and I would slowly take off your clothes. I’d unbutton your shirt….then I’d take off your shoes one by one….” If you suddenly feel nervous, ask him, “Would you like that? What would you want me to do next? What would you do to me?” Then he can take over for a while.
* When it doubt, boost his ego. Guys are pretty simple creatures. They basically want to know one thing above all else: That they turn us ladies on. So tell him exactly that. “You’re so hot, I want you, I wish you were here, I wish I could just grab you, I wish I could feel you on top of me….” Describing his anatomy (in extra large sizes) will also make him extremely happy.
Bottom line, my doll: He loves you and you love him. Phone sex is just a fun thing that you’re trying out together. There are no real rules, and you can’t really “get it wrong,” since it’s just for fun. So enjoy it, take it slowly, let him guide you and you might just end up loving it!
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phone sex is lame I don’t care what anyone says